Percy our awareness coach has said that love is an energy, a binding power, the basis, the source of life. I would agree that love could be called all of these things. Often it is what people feel when they describe their feelings about love.
As far as I'm concerned love is one of the most misused words and ideas. Love is used by people as an excuse to sleep with the partner of a best friend. Love is a word that some use when they beat their children of partner and it is certainly heard by many women in the sex industry as the reason their pimps exploit them.
All you need is love. No way. You can hate me, if you offer when needed a warm meal or a roof or even a conversation or some contact. Love is not really necessary except for a baby in the first weeks of life, after that even for a baby other things become much more important.
Do you really love someone if you all unknowingly poison them with refined sugars. In the NL they say that love is felt via the stomach. If I see so called children's meals in most restaurants I read at best ignorance and at worst abuse.
Is it love when men only want women who have to be perpetually hungry to be 'beautiful, women who damage their ankles, knees, hips and back by only wearing high heels. Women who have been in constant, physical pain so long they don't even feel it. No pain, no gain in the beauty stakes.
"De mantel der liefde erover' roughly translated 'spread the cloak of love over it', rather than being honest or open or risking the possibility of a disagreement. Yes, sometimes being honest or open means being open to being hurt but, in a society that deals out pain on a daily basis, whey avoid this one?
In love is Eros, which is an completely different place that loving which one can call agape.
Last week I went with a friend to pick up her four year old daughter. The daughter said to me "I love you"I had to laugh because within five minutes sheś said the same about her play group, a building her dad and then me again.
I don't want any more of that love in a world where those who love their country find that fact a good reason the murder anyone else who feels the same about another country. People who are in love with someone think they have murdered them for 'understandable' reasons. Or because people are in love they want to sign a slave contract that makes their beloved their legal possession, also known as marriage.
Last week was Valentines Day a tradition that I grew up with, although how it was celebrated in the UK in my youth is completely different from the U.S version which probably now dominates. I'm not going to discuss that now. I brought it up to say that the current obsession with finding or being in a monogamous 'romantic' relationship is like a sickness. Especially because I do not understand how you can be in love with someone and then some time later want/wish or do them harm.
I don't get how women deny their children access to the father (they chose for them) and vise versa. Or than men leave their children en even focus or become fathers for their children of their new partners while they ignore their biological children.
The opposite of love is indifference. Hate is the opposite of projection or the result of a disappointed ego. If your love turns into hate, you never loved in the first place. Love can turn into disappointment or pain or anger but none of those are an automatic path to hatred. You may want to avoid or ignore an ex to protect your self. If you make hateful actions, it was not love.
The father of my daughter doesn't want anything to do with him. I understand completely. However I know why I loved him and how that felt and I wish him only happiness in his life especially with his new partner.
Even the scumbag liars who stole from me or hit me just allow me to see and understand that it was my inability to love myself, which prevented me from allowing good people to come to me. Those people have condemned themselves. The universal energetic law is cause and effect. What goes around comes around. What you do unto others will be done to you. By being aware that this is an immutable and irreversible law we can make sure that all that comes to us is fantastic.
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